But she’s at it again.  This time the possibility is a little more doable than the last one (he was 23 and I said no thanks!).  This time it’s even someone that I know from my senior year in highschool.  And he even asked me out my senior year but I said no.  He was(is) a really nice guy but when he asked me out I was in the middle of a breakup and the breakup dude & I got back together.

Anyways, to make a long story short – it’s been years since 1993 when he asked me out & we both obviously went our separate ways.  He married, had a kid and I had a kid.  Now he is divorced and living next to my sis-in-law’s sister & husband and everyone things it would be great to set us up…nonchalantly of course.

We’ll see.  I for one am not about jumping into any relationship at the moment (even though I do want to get married & the joke is that 2008 is my year to do this) because I’m not sure that I’m ready.  I’m still working on me in the physical, emotional & spiritual sense – I have issues I’m still working on that will hinder any relationship.  Two, I don’t know what his religious beliefs are – and I have to have a Christian man in my life.

Hanging out in a group would be fine – I’m up for that.  But as far as one on one dating with him – if he were to even be interested in that (when he asked me out before I was a lot different and a lot skinnier!!!!) I don’t know if it’s the right time.  We’ll see.