One Man Down Two to Go
Update on my it’s raining men post (and seriously could my title to that post have been any more gay? LOL).
I mentioned there were three new prospects:
1. The Lansing Man
2. The Older Man
3. The I Don’t Have a Nickname for You Man
I shared that I wasn’t really interested in prospect number three but was afraid to cancel a date that we had set up for this Friday. Well I still haven’t canceled. The email is wrote and ready to be sent, it’s just a matter of hitting send. I’m just not interested in him and it’s not fair to lead him on but I also am afraid of hurting his feelings. LOL
Prospect number one I wasn’t sure about. I don’t know anything about him and actually I haven’t heard from him in a couple days. And honestly I’m crossing him off my list. He lives in Lansing, that’s kind of far…well ok it’s really not that far from me but it’s still a distance.
Prospect number two. Ah yes The Older Man. There was a typo in yesterday’s post – I said he was 41. He’s not he is only 39…I’m not exactly sure where I came up with the 41. LOL
I said I was confused by the older man because he hadn’t asked me out and or hadn’t even called and it took forever for us to even exchange numbers. But that changed Monday night and we had been having a mad marathon session of texting back and forth.
But I was still confused and couldn’t figure out whether he was interested or not. Well that all changed…we have a date Friday night (how bad is it that I’m canceling one date for another date – no honestly I planned on canceling the other date before older man and I made plans to meet up Friday night!). We even talked on the phone forever after another crazy marathon of text messaging!
Maybe older men are a little more cautious than younger ones? It took a little hinting that I was available this weekend and that I was definitely interested in meeting before he finally ‘got’ it and we made plans!
Until next time…
1Angie (Losing It and Loving It)
wrote on 9 July 2009 at 10:19
Send the email and be done with that one. You don’t want to waste your time and I’m sure he would appreciate your honesty so he could move on.
Sounds like it’s positive so far with the older guy. As you know, Kev is 10 years older than myself and it’s been great. In my experience it seems older men know how to treat women and know what they want, less into playing games. Hope you have fun!
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2chele
wrote on 9 July 2009 at 11:11
I disagree. What else have you got to do? Sit at home and watch TV? It’s called dating for a reason. He’s probably not expecting to get married Saturday morning, either!
You could actually have a great time. Maybe there’s more than meets the eye to this guy but you’ll miss it and never know?!
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3chele
wrote on 9 July 2009 at 11:14
Oh wait a minute. I got interrupted by the “can I have poptart” question and missed the entire paragraph about you have another date with someone you ARE interested. Just ignore me. I’m gonna go back to school and learn to read posts without skipping paragraphs. LOL
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4Tishia Lee
wrote on 10 July 2009 at 1:05
Angie – I did send the email and things ended up being NOT so positive with the older man.
Chele – At first I think that’s why I told him yes (I was thinking ok I have nothing better to do) but then I realized as we had more IM conversations that I was not the least bit interested in him even as just a friend (I know that sounds horrible). Our conversations were BORING, he agreed with everything I said and I was seriously looking forward to the ‘date’ with him as much as someone looks forward to going to a funeral!
Now I’m laughing at you in regards to your comment about missing the entire paragraph about the other date with someone I was (key word WAS) interested in.