Some People Need to Just Keep Their Mouths Shut
Ok generally I don’t refer to people as stupid but tonight I’m using that word to refer to some dumb a** young punk that said something to me that really upset me. Actually he hurt my feelings and made me cry (see what I mean about this crying thing lately….UGH!).
My friend Tammy invited me to check out her live broadcast she was doing from live yahoo (if u have a webcam u can have it on so mine was on) so I was hanging out in there chatting with her minding my own business when some stupid guy called me fat. Not once but twice!!!! Ummm let’s just say he’s lucky I couldn’t crawl through the screen cause I so would of slapped him upside the head a couple times. UGH some people!
Ok so I know it’s really lame to let something like that get to me, especially considering it was just a stupid punk but I have issues with people saying something like that especially when it’s directed at me. It really wasn’t worth crying over but damn it….my feelings were hurt. Those words bring back so many memories from my child hood days and even into my middle school years and even into my adult hood. And it wasn’t just stupid kids at school picking on me…I got it from my family too and ex boyfriends. I grew up hearing my whole life how pretty I was but (sometimes I really hate that word BUT) if only I would lose weight. Blah,blah,blah.
I’ve still got about 50 more pounds to go to be content with my weight. I’m working my ass off at being healthy and exercising and blah blah blah so I should be proud of the fact that I’ve already accomplished losing 36 pounds and 14.25 inches in only a couple months but I’m still frustrated that I have so much more to go and that no matter how many damn crunches I do my stomach is still my main trouble area!!! And then this stupid idiot from tonight and his rude comment just rubbed me the wrong way and I let it bother me. I’m sure if I hadn’t been in this ‘funk’ that I’ve been in the past couple days I wouldn’t of even thought twice about it (well yeah actually I’m sure I would of). UGH I’m just totally irritated.
1Heather @ Desperately Seeking Sanity
wrote on 15 April 2008 at 7:18
like water off a duck’s backside… it’s none of your business what other people think of you…
you’re beautiful… and NOT fat!
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2LaTara
wrote on 15 April 2008 at 11:09
Girl yo should have told him that what he thinks does not matter because your man has no issues with it.
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3Becki
wrote on 15 April 2008 at 11:15
Don’t worry about it…I know that’s easy for someone to say, but as someone who has been in your shoes just be strong and confident in what you’ve accomplished already.
You are a rockin’ and a roll’in.
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4Carrie at Natural Moms Talk Radio
wrote on 15 April 2008 at 11:16
Oh my gosh Tishia. It really chaps my hide that people think it’s ok to be so rude. Weight is the last socially “acceptable” prejudice and it’s wrong, wrong, wrong.
I’m coming from this perspective. I have genes that make me petite. My two friends growing up were curvy and womanly when I was a stick, and I was jealous of their figures. Both of them had body image issues and eating issues too, and it just saddened me. I thought they were both gorgeous!
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5Annette
wrote on 15 April 2008 at 11:41
Embrace you today – You ARE beautiful.
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6Mark
wrote on 15 April 2008 at 11:42
Like I said last night, you have to ignore what the random trolls of the Internet have to say. Their entire intent is to hurt you because that’s—pathetically!—how they keep themselves entertained. Put emotional weight behind your friends and loved ones and not random morons!
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7Jen @ One Moms World
wrote on 15 April 2008 at 19:11
That is just wrong Tishia. He is just jealous that he doesn’t have anybody and he has to turn it into negative energy.
You are doing awesome and are very beautiful Tishia
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8Sharon
wrote on 15 April 2008 at 22:00
Some people have to put others down to feel good about there own self images, this person obviously has big problems to have to stoop as low as he did attacking a good person like you.
Your beautiful inside and out
9nell@casualfridayeveryday
wrote on 17 April 2008 at 0:52
We all know it should be water off our backs, but I understand how it got to you. You’re stunning, Tishia. That guy needs to get a life…for real!
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